Getting Started It takes time, patience, love, acceptance, and hard work to go through all the twists and turns of the road to recovery. There are many layers of learning that will unfold in their own time and in their own way. Your work is to find your path through the challenges along the journey. There is no wrong way. There is only your way. Use this map as a guideline to find your own process of getting beyond the obsession with food and weight. From the Book Over It: A Teen's Guide to Getting Beyond Obsessions wtih Food and Weight. Teen Books, Websites and Resources